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  I'm Guilty: Why I Need to Rethink My Relationship Expectations As I sit here reflecting on my relationship expectations, I'm forced to confront some uncomfortable truths. I've always believed that a partner should be able to provide for me, to shower me with gifts and attention. But the reality is, I'm not exactly in a position to be making demands. I'm broke, just like the guys I claim to be too good for   The Hypocrisy of My Expectations is   I've always said that I couldn't date a broke guy, that I needed someone who could take care of me which is not a bad idea but the question is, WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO BETTER YOURSELF? But when I really think about it, that's not only unfair, it's also unrealistic. I'm not exactly rolling in dough myself, so why should I expect someone else to be?  In our days today, relationships, both romantic and non-romantic are seen as a full time job where you must get everything at ease without working for it. Just ...

The Power of Real Love In a world where heartbreak and disappointment can be overwhelming, it's easy to lose faith in love. However, I firmly believe in the transformative power of real love.   What is Real Love? For me, love is not just a feeling, but a state of being. It's the sense of being fully yourself, feeling confident and motivated to grow. Real love is not transactional; it's not about what you can gain or lose. It's about finding someone who accepts and supports you for who you are. The Misconception of Love Many people believe that love requires material possessions or financial security. While these things can certainly make life more comfortable, they are not the foundation of real love. Love is about connection, understanding, and mutual growth.   Can Love Exist Without Meeting Material Needs? This is a common question, and one that I'd like to address. While it's true that our basic needs must be met, real love is not solely dependent on material...

 In the late hours of yesterday, Billionaire wife Regina Daniels deactivate Instagram account amid husband (Ned Nwoke) welcoming baby with strange woman... Regina been the sixth wife to billionaire politician Ned Nwoko got shocked to the latest happening of an incoming 7th wife. Ned Nwoko must be 2face mentor. Let see who this strange woman is 

 The Federal Government should focus on meaningful reforms rather than recycling old ideas. Today, we're not discussing the rebranding of NEPA to PHCN or debating bleaching creams and tariff plans. I often wonder what our government thinks its citizens are. They jump from one irrelevant issue to another. Take, for instance, the Labour Congress. They're a group of individuals easily silenced with minor incentives. Now, the government is proposing to merge Junior Secondary School (JSS) and Senior Secondary School (SSS) into a single 12-year education system before tertiary education. This isn't a new concept; it's been the norm, except for some private schools that accelerate their students' progress without following the proper sequence. A student in primary school writes the common entrance examination and proceeds to JSS1. The same student then moves from JSS3 to SS1 and writes the SSCE exams in SS2. Consequently, they enter university with inadequate knowledge. Cu...

Sometimes, the walls that trap us are the ones we draw ourselves. I recall a time when I felt suffocated, stuck in a never-ending cycle of negativity. I was holding onto something that I should have let go of long ago, but somehow, it still lingered, haunting me like a ghost. Every so often, I'd find myself relating to it, sucked back into the vortex of self-pity and despair. I'd beat myself up over every little thing, and it was exhausting. My self-worth was taking a beating, and it was affecting every aspect of my life. Every decision I made, every interaction I had, seemed to trigger this toxic cycle. But here's the thing: our minds are far more powerful than we give them credit for. They can be our greatest allies or our worst enemies. Our minds can enslave us or set us free. They can fill us with joy or consume us with sadness. They can bring us peace or chaos. The key is to recognize the power of our minds and take control of them. We must learn to guide our thoughts,...

All this while, I never doubted what we have. The peace and serenity I get from our relationship is overwhelming. My instincts have never failed me, and I trust them fully because I'm in great alignment with them. That's why I'm holding on, even when doubts creep into my head. I still hold strong, and I wonder why. Whatever this is, I pray it's for our goodwill. I never thought you cheated; you never gave me a reason to think so. Or am I just non-reactive to it? No, I hate sharing my personal belongings. But whatever you've done is working. Your sense of responsibility, acceptance, and willingness to put in the effort have made a significant difference. With you, I've forgotten – or maybe even regret – the four years of turbulence I endured. If I'm not careful, you'll be a dream come true, because moments with you are worth it. For now, I have no regrets, and I pray you won't give me any. I appreciate the alpha-male qualities you possess. With you, I...

 I thought I knew what love was, but I was wrong. Unexplainable, I find it. Or am I exaggerating? Years ago, I thought I had seen the best side of love, but now I'm rewriting it. It feels so different; the peace I find in it now can't be compared to the joy a lender gets when their debtor pays up their debt. Again, I say, I hope I'm not exaggerating. Uncertainty happens, and this joy I feel can vanish like a bursted hot air balloon. Still, I hope it lasts and isn't just a fantasy for the moment. I lack spoken words to express my emotions, but give me a pen and paper, and I'll drown you in an ocean of love. I love you just as the uniformity of the four-letter word "LOVE" came together to give the word its meaning. Loving you is a habit, and the joy I get when I behold your sight is unmatched. Your smile sends a resounding hope of true love and a constant reminder of how handsome you look wearing that smile. Even the purest medicated glasses can't see ho...